
FAQ: Everything You Need to Know
Living with DPDR can feel disorienting and frightening, but it’s crucial to understand that you are safe. You are not crazy. You are real. DPDR is not a life-threatening condition, even though it may feel like it at times. It’s a response to overwhelming stress, trauma, or anxiety, where your mind creates a protective mechanism to distance you from pain. This detachment is meant to keep you safe by shielding you from emotional overload. Instead of fighting or resisting the experience, which only intensifies the feelings of unreality, you can learn to acknowledge it without fear. Acceptance does not mean resigning yourself to suffering, but rather allowing yourself to be present with what is happening in a non-judgmental way. It’s recognizing that the symptoms you’re experiencing are not dangerous, and that they are a temporary response to stress, not a reflection of who you are.
Frequently Asked Questions
Here are the FAQs of my site, addressing the most frequent questions I’ve encountered. These questions aim to provide clarity and support for individuals seeking answers about DPDR symptoms, causes, and recovery:
Will I lose my mind?
No, you won’t lose your mind — though I get it, it feels like you might. The truth is, DPDR can play some cruel tricks, making you question everything, even your sanity. But here’s the thing: this isn’t madness. It’s your brain’s overprotective mode, trying to shield you from stress or overwhelm by hitting the “numb” button.
You’re not broken, and this isn’t forever. That foggy, detached feeling might feel endless, but it’s a temporary glitch, not a permanent crash. People recover from DPDR all the time—with patience, support, and tools like therapy.
The fact you’re questioning this shows you’re still in the driver’s seat — aware, curious, and ready to fight your way through. You’re not losing control; you’re navigating a tough moment, and you’ve got this.
What if people don’t believe me or understand how I feel?
It’s incredibly frustrating when others don’t understand what you’re going through, especially when it feels so real and overwhelming to you. But here’s the truth: just because someone doesn’t fully understand what you’re feeling doesn’t mean it isn’t valid. DPDR is a complex experience, and not everyone will grasp how it affects you, especially if they’ve never experienced it themselves.
That doesn’t mean you’re alone, though. There are people who do get it—therapists, support groups, and others who have been where you are. They understand the struggle, the confusion, and the fear. If the people around you aren’t providing the support you need, it’s okay to seek help from those who specialize in this.
And if you ever feel dismissed or invalidated, remember: your experience is real.
Will my DPDR go away after smoking weed, or is it permanent?
If you’re experiencing DPDR after smoking weed, it can feel overwhelming, but it’s usually not permanent. Cannabis-induced DPDR often stems from heightened anxiety or a panic response, temporarily disrupting your sense of self and reality.
For most people, these symptoms fade with time, typically resolving within days, weeks, or a few months. Recovery is highly likely, especially if you take steps to support it. Avoid cannabis for now, as continued use can worsen symptoms. Instead, focus on grounding techniques like mindfulness, deep breathing, and physical activity. Maintaining healthy habits, such as regular sleep, exercise, and proper nutrition, can also help your mind and body recover.
Am I schizophrenic or is this psychosis?
It’s natural to worry about conditions like schizophrenia or psychosis when experiencing distressing symptoms such as feeling disconnected from yourself or your surroundings, as in DPDR. However, these experiences are not typically signs of schizophrenia or psychosis. In DPDR, people remain aware that their sensations of unreality are strange or distressing, which indicates a retained sense of reality. This contrasts with psychosis, where individuals lose touch with reality, often experiencing delusions (fixed, false beliefs) or hallucinations (hearing or seeing things that aren’t there).
Schizophrenia, a specific mental health condition, involves symptoms such as persistent delusions, hallucinations, disorganized thinking, and a lack of insight into one’s altered perceptions. DPDR, on the other hand, is usually linked to anxiety, trauma, or severe stress and does not cause delusions or hallucinations.
If you’re questioning whether you might have schizophrenia or psychosis, it’s important to seek a professional evaluation. A mental health provider can help differentiate between these conditions, offering clarity and reassurance. Remember, the very fact that you are questioning your mental state often suggests insight, which is generally inconsistent with psychosis.
Can I ever feel normal again?
Yes, you can absolutely feel normal again. While it may take time, effort, and patience, healing from DPDR is possible. It’s important to remember that this feeling of detachment is temporary, and with the right support, coping strategies, and self-care, you can regain a sense of connection to yourself and the world around you. Progress might not always be linear, but small steps forward can lead to significant improvements. By addressing stress, practicing grounding techniques, and seeking professional help when needed, you can rebuild your sense of stability and comfort. You can get back to feeling like yourself again, and you don’t have to face this alone.
Can stress or anxiety make this worse?
Yes, stress and anxiety can worsen Depersonalization-Derealization Disorder (DPDR). They can trigger or intensify feelings of detachment. Breathing techniques, like deep or box breathing, can calm the nervous system and reduce stress. Grounding exercises, such as focusing on the five senses or using tactile objects, help reconnect you to the present moment and counteract dissociation.
Avoiding caffeine and anxiety-inducing drugs is also crucial, as stimulants like caffeine can increase anxiety and worsen DPDR symptoms. Managing stress and anxiety with these techniques and lifestyle changes can help reduce the severity of DPDR.
Could this be a brain tumor or neurological disorder?
Yes, symptoms like Depersonalization and Derealization can sometimes stem from physical or neurological conditions, though these are less common than psychological causes such as anxiety or trauma. For example, inflammatory brain diseases like encephalitis can disrupt areas of the brain involved in perception and emotional processing, leading to feelings of disconnection. Similarly, thyroid disorders, including hyperthyroidism or hypothyroidism, may cause mood changes, anxiety, and cognitive disturbances that mimic DPDR.
Brain injuries, even mild ones such as concussions, can affect sensory processing and emotional regulation, resulting in sensations of detachment or unreality. Another potential factor is temporal lobe epilepsy, where seizures in this part of the brain can produce altered states of consciousness or auras that feel similar to DPDR. Additionally, severe sleep disorders, like chronic insomnia or sleep apnea, can impair cognitive and emotional functioning, exacerbating feelings of unreality due to extreme fatigue and stress on the nervous system.
If you’re concerned about a medical cause, it’s important to consult a healthcare provider. They may recommend blood tests, imaging studies like an MRI or CT scan, or an EEG to identify any underlying neurological or physical issues. Early diagnosis and treatment are crucial to managing these symptoms effectively.